tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8585790403602128418.post2808743761789982994..comments2011-02-25T09:52:10.109-05:00Comments on Random thoughts from a tired mom of twins: HealingMomofTwinGirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13120214977953358465noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8585790403602128418.post-85276141472200795862011-02-01T19:35:18.979-05:002011-02-01T19:35:18.979-05:00Thinking of you as you process your loss and move ...Thinking of you as you process your loss and move through the fog of grief.Kristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13088448470042303043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8585790403602128418.post-84637278832341798222011-02-01T14:54:21.048-05:002011-02-01T14:54:21.048-05:00Thank you Barbara. I'll take all the hugs I c...Thank you Barbara. I'll take all the hugs I can get. They really do help!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8585790403602128418.post-82301525492051559002011-02-01T13:24:21.758-05:002011-02-01T13:24:21.758-05:00Fist, here is a big hug, because you know that I b...Fist, here is a big hug, because you know that I believe in their healing ability. <br />Second, I share the pain and the anger and the utter sadness that I felt when my mom died, at the age of 85. She tried to take great care of herself, but it was her time and so she left us, with her love and our memories to fill our days and our nights. <br />I am sorry that your mom left you so early in your life and that of your children's. But I guess that my message is that it wouldn't be any different 10 or 15 years later...there is the same pain and anger whenever it happens.<br /><br />I found my way to recovery is to surround yourself with the love of us who care for you, share your pain and the happy days and the wonderful memories that you can find, no matter how few or many they might be. They say time is a great healer and guess what? It really is. But 15 years later, I still find myself wanting to pick up the phone and tell her a funny story or that I miss her more than life itself.<br /><br />And another hug to end....Barbara Spackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903469240603034177noreply@blogger.com